The question itself is worded such to be inflammatory and rather shallow and suggestive.
Support can come in many forms depending upon your poitical beliefs and definition of support (i.e., immediate short-term or sustaining long-term)
So those of us who opposed this intervention, can and have been assisting the families of those in theater, families with needs to cope and be of help when needed. Alot of moms and children left here at home with some 200,000+ troops overseas. We help with stuff like picking kids up, watching them, shopping, assisting with household chores/duties, yardwork, and lend emotional support.
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Sure could use a trim